Sara writes:
In case you want a fun game to play over Memorial Day weekend (my name nerd friends and I play and sometimes I play as you). Rules (or caveats): 1. You can use all of the name knowledge you currently possess. 2. Name your children (the ones you have now), but pretend like you were naming them in your mom’s and grandmom’s generation. 3. Other than what was stated in Rule 1, you can only use the technological (and other) resources available to you then. 4. Bonus, name your children as if in future year(s) your children would be naming theirs (not naming your grandchildren, naming your own kids). So for me, I would be naming my kids in the late 1940s/early 1950s, the late 1970s/early 80s and hopefully not until 2035ish.
And I might be the only one who finds this fun. But I thought you would enjoy the challenge.
If you post it, I’ll share mine in the comments :)
I love it. Wait, so what resources can I use? Not the Social Security site, but I can use old baby name books? This makes me very, very happy I ordered a copy of Miss Grace‘s favorite baby name book What Shall We Name the Baby?, published in 1935. …Oh, this makes me mad: I ordered a 1935 copy, and it’s only this minute that I notice they sent me the 1967 edition instead. Well, I was going to use it for pretending to name my children in the 1940s, but instead I will use it pretend to name them in the 1970s. Actually, I will also use it to pretend to name them in the 1940s, but I will double-check if I think a name might not have been used then.
Wait. I’m not sure I have a firm grasp on this task yet. My name knowledge is very, very of my generation. I’m not sure I even KNOW what names were being used in previous generations or how those names sounded to people then, unless I look at the Social Security website. Like, I know I mostly like to use Top 50 names for boys, so to see what I might have actually named my boys in the 1940s, I think I’d need to look at the website to see what were the Top 50 names in the 1940s, and then choose from those. And to know what a “Top 50” name would be, I’d need to look at what percentage of kids are given Top 50 names now, and translate into whatever the equivalent would be in the 1940s. If I were actually in the 1940s, I’d have been steeped in cultural awareness I haven’t actually been steeped in; I think technology would help compensate for that lack, or else I might be tempted to claim I would never have used Gary for any of my sons when actually I probably would have been exactly on board with that.
So I’m going to change the game in the following ways: 1. I can use technology where I think it will improve the accuracy of my answers, as long as I keep in mind that I would not have had access to that information then. That is, I can use it to try to figure out what names would mostly likely have been my style, in order to look at the name pool I think would have been in my consciousness in the same way as the Top 50 names are now; but I may not use it to cheat so that I look like I would have chosen better names than I would have. My girl name style will be more challenging for this, because I like unusual girl names—and yet the names I might have THOUGHT were unusual in the 1940s/1970s would be names I’d now KNOW were much more common.
But I’m not sure how I can get into the 1940s/1970s mindset of “here are the names I would have thought were unusual.” How do you guys do it when you play? I know my parents thought the name Kristen was pretty unusual, and my grandparents certainly didn’t realize they were giving their daughter the 2nd most popular girl name in the United States. And I just remembered that one of my son’s names was a name I really liked but wasn’t going to use because I thought it was much too unusual—but then I looked it up and found it was Top 50 and used it. That’s hard to find a 1940s/1970s equivalent of.
Perhaps I am over-thinking this. Why don’t I see if I can just make some lists?
1940s
I looked on the Social Security baby name site for the middle year of my year of baby-naming (2003) and added up the percentages of the Top 50 boy names; that came to roughly 36%. So then I looked at 1950 (the middle year of my grandparents’ baby-naming), and looked for the top 36%—which turns out to be only the top 12 names:
James
Robert
John
Michael
William
David
Richard
Thomas
Charles
Gary
Larry
Ronald
I’m not sure that’s fun enough to choose from, and I’m not sure I would have chosen from basically the the Top 10. It occurs to me that although I say my boy name tastes are “Top 50,” I never do choose from the Top 10. I choose from right around #35—which was about half a percent of boy babies born in 2003. In 1950, interestingly, that would ALSO be right around #35. Here are the names from #20 to #50 in 1950:
George
Daniel
Edward
Mark
Jerry
Gregory
Bruce
Roger
Douglas
Frank
Terry
Raymond
Timothy
Lawrence
Gerald
Wayne
Anthony
Peter
Patrick
Danny
Walter
Alan
Willie
Jeffrey
Carl
Harold
Arthur
Henry
Jack
Dale
Johnny
Picking as me NOW, I would want George and Henry and Daniel and Edward. Using similar methods to narrow in on a girl name, I’ll bet I’d have chosen something like Rosalinda or Estella. But it seems like if those names sound good to me now, they wouldn’t have sounded anything like that in the 1950s. My parents say that Henry is an “elderly old great-uncle” name. I don’t think current peers of boys named Henry will think the same, so that means a 2003 Henry is not the same name as a 1950 Henry. I am having trouble getting my mind around this challenge!
So maybe it would be better to look at style. One of my boys has what The Baby Name Wizard calls “New Classics” names: names that are good, basic names, but on the other hand we don’t have grandparents with those names yet (she uses Evan and Allison as examples). One boy has a sort of Celtic/trendy name. Two of my boys have biblical names, but one is timeless/traditional and the other is more of a recent revival. And my girl has a frilly, uncommon name. (If I’d been thinking of style when I chose the kids’ blog pseudonyms, I probably would have chosen Ian, Keegan, Clarissa, James, and Caleb.) I’d need to find out which names were considered “new biblical” in my parents’ generation, and which were nice basic names that weren’t used two generations before, and which were trendy and very tied to that time period, and which were the frilly unusual girl names. The task seems interesting, but difficult and lengthy.
Okay, I’m ready to turn this game over to everyone else! How would you do it? What names do you get? And I want to hear what Sara chose for my kids when she was playing as Swistle!