{"id":8154,"date":"2013-09-23T08:19:41","date_gmt":"2013-09-23T12:19:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/?p=8154"},"modified":"2013-11-09T16:09:40","modified_gmt":"2013-11-09T20:09:40","slug":"baby-naming-issue-hopes-daughter-grace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2013\/09\/23\/baby-naming-issue-hopes-daughter-grace\/","title":{"rendered":"Baby Naming Issue: Hope&#8217;s Daughter Grace"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hope writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m about 3 1\/2 weeks for my due date and we&#8217;ve pretty much nailed down a name, but I&#8217;m still apprehensive.<\/p>\n<p>The name is Grace Louise. I love it, I do. In my head I think of her as Gracie. I have stopped looking for other names. But I am still worried that every time I introduce myself and her I&#8217;ll feel a tinge of (for lack of a better word) embarrassment. &#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m Hope and this is my daughter Grace.&#8221; I&#8217;ll be waiting for people to comment or assume they think it&#8217;s silly.<\/p>\n<p>So, can you tell me if I&#8217;m being ridiculous? Or do you and the readers think it IS silly? Will I make us the butt of jokes? Will my teenage daughter roll her eyes that I named her something so similar to my own name? Help!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>My guess is that people will definitely notice, and may very well comment on it&#8212;but that it is the sort of thing people in general LIKE. That is, my guess is that the feedback will be positive and sparkley-eyed with enjoyment, not negative and eye-rolly with scorn. The situation where you&#8217;re introducing yourselves at the same time (and only the two of you, with no other name to put between you) won&#8217;t come up very often, and on the occasions it does, you can minimize the effect by separating the introductions a bit: &#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m Hope Anderson! *shaking hands* Nice to meet you too! And this is Grace.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you DO get any feedback that seems negative (from your future teenaged daughter or from anyone else), you can shrug and say, &#8220;I know, and that almost made us not choose it&#8212;but Grace was just our hands-down favorite name.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Name update!<\/strong> Hope writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thank you so much for posting my question. I had not considered the name as a (sweet) link between myself and my daughter, and that was all I needed to hear to convince myself we were making the right choice. I so appreciate yours and the readers unbiased opinions. Grace Louise arrived October 21st (9 days late), and so far no one has commented to me on the virtue name connection.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8335\" alt=\"image\" src=\"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/image.jpeg\" width=\"180\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/image.jpeg 180w, https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/image-100x150.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 180px) 100vw, 180px\" \/><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hope writes: I&#8217;m about 3 1\/2 weeks for my due date and we&#8217;ve pretty much nailed down a name, but I&#8217;m still apprehensive. The name is Grace Louise. I love it, I do. In my head I think of her as Gracie. I have stopped looking for other names. 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