{"id":7275,"date":"2008-02-21T14:36:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-21T18:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2008\/02\/21\/baby-boy-___-john\/"},"modified":"2015-03-11T15:05:27","modified_gmt":"2015-03-11T19:05:27","slug":"baby-boy-___-john","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2008\/02\/21\/baby-boy-___-john\/","title":{"rendered":"Baby Boy ___ John, Brother to Greyson James"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Dear Swistle,<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my baby name dilemma: I have one child &#8211; his name is Greyson James and he just turned 2. Grey is a family name (so is James), and we just lengthened it. I thought it was an &#8220;original&#8221; name, but now I&#8217;m seeing it everywhere! Okay, back to the topic at hand. I&#8217;m due to have another baby boy in April (nine weeks away &#8211; yikes!). We love using family names and we&#8217;re considering naming new baby after my recently deceased grandfather &#8211; Wesly. To spice it up a bit, we&#8217;re considering Weston. I thought I was firm with this naming thing, but I&#8217;ve recently been doubting my decision. We&#8217;ve decided the middle name will be John, after my husband&#8217;s father. I&#8217;m not set on Wesly or Weston, nor on using a family name for the first name. I need some ideas &#8211; Help! I&#8217;m not someone who cares if my boys&#8217; names &#8220;match&#8221; or sound good together. I&#8217;m sooooo picky and have a hard time finding ANY name that I even remotely like!! BTW, if it was a girl, we were going with Eliza (love the name!). If you can offer any advice, that would be great. Thanks so much :)<\/p>\n<p>Kate<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Oh, there are so many interesting issues here! I have to be careful not to get distracted by the mention of the problem of creating an original name and then finding out it is not, because that is a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/2007\/09\/06\/surprisingly-common-baby-names\/\">VERY INTERESTING topic<\/a> to me.<\/p>\n<p>Greyson is a great surname name: it sounds like Jason and Mason, so it&#8217;s familiar&#8212;but it&#8217;s more modern, and it has the cool nickname Grey. In sound, it&#8217;s the male version of the popular girl&#8217;s name Grace. I think Wesley John is terrific with it. (I would spell it the usual Wesley instead of the adverby-looking Wesly.) Not only does it parallel nicely with Greyson James, it has the nickname Wes, which I love. Greyson and Wesley. Grey and Wes.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve got the same good stuff going on with the name Weston. Greyson and Weston is if anything better-coordinated, and you still get the good nickname Wes, and you avoid the problem of the spelling of Wesley. The doctoring on both family names is roughly equivalent: Grey to Greyson, Wesly to Weston. Furthermore, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/0767917529\/ref=nosim\/?tag=88K18-20\">The Baby Name Wizard<\/a> recommends the name Grayson (she spells it the A way) as a brother name for the name Weston, so apparently we all agree.<\/p>\n<p>Now for some more possibilities. For starters, there are the brother names in The Baby Name Wizard for the name Grayson: Easton, Keaton, Brennan, Dawson, Brody. Any of those strike your fancy? I find &#8220;Greyson and Easton&#8221; difficult to say. I like Keaton, even though it comes out &#8220;Keet&#8217;n&#8221; when I say it. Greyson and Dawson is maybe a little matchier than you&#8217;d like? But I do like it.<\/p>\n<p>Since we seem to be on a roll with surname names, I flipped to the &#8220;Last Names First&#8221; section of The Baby Name Wizard and wrote down the ones that jumped out at me:<\/p>\n<p>Hudson<br \/>\nKeegan<br \/>\nLawson<br \/>\nPaxton<br \/>\nSullivan<br \/>\nTurner<br \/>\nWalker<\/p>\n<p>My favorites from there are Keegan, Lawson, and Sullivan.<\/p>\n<p>In my opinion, the best names are the ones you&#8217;ve already thought of: Wesley John or Weston John. Those are solid, cool names with family meaning, and they&#8217;re great with your first son&#8217;s name. I think some doubt about the chosen name is common even if the name is perfect, and that you won&#8217;t regret either of these choices. I think Wesley is better with John, and Weston is better with Greyson, so it&#8217;s a draw.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Name update<\/strong>: Weston<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Swistle, Here&#8217;s my baby name dilemma: I have one child &#8211; his name is Greyson James and he just turned 2. Grey is a family name (so is James), and we just lengthened it. I thought it was an &#8220;original&#8221; name, but now I&#8217;m seeing it everywhere! Okay, back to the topic at hand. 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