{"id":7089,"date":"2009-02-20T08:54:00","date_gmt":"2009-02-20T12:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2009\/02\/20\/finding-a-germanusa-baby-boy-or-girl-name\/"},"modified":"2009-02-20T08:54:00","modified_gmt":"2009-02-20T12:54:00","slug":"finding-a-germanusa-baby-boy-or-girl-name","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2009\/02\/20\/finding-a-germanusa-baby-boy-or-girl-name\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding a German\/USA Baby Boy or Girl Name"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>D. writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>We&#8217;re due February 27th and don&#8217;t know what we&#8217;re having.  My husband is from Germany and I am of German descent.  Since we may be living in Germany at some point, we&#8217;re looking for a name that would work well in either Germany or the States.  We&#8217;re a fan of modern German and Scandinavian names (meaning no Gertrudes or Rainers), and don&#8217;t mind something a little unusual.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re down to two boy name finalists.  We&#8217;re leaning toward Lukas Alexander at the moment, but Carsten Matthias is another possibility.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re totally flummoxed on girl names, as we don&#8217;t tend to like the same ones. My husband likes very feminine names (Daniela, Liliana), but they don&#8217;t do much for me.  I really like the names Corinna and Anja, but can&#8217;t bring my husband totally around.  Karina is a potential compromise.  We also keep coming back to some version of Annelie (Annalee?  Anna Leigh?), but can&#8217;t come up with a spelling that works well in both places (also, my husband has a good friend whose daughter is named Amelie, so he&#8217;s concerned they&#8217;re too close).  And we can&#8217;t even get to a middle name until we get closer to a first name, though I like Jane and Mae (my mother&#8217;s middle names) as companions to a longer first name.<\/p>\n<p>Any help or creative thinking you could provide would be much appreciated!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to flip right to the German\/Dutch and Scandinavian sections of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/0767917529\/ref=nosim\/?tag=88K18-20\">The Baby Name Wizard<\/a> to help me out here.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, no, I&#8217;m going to do that second.  FIRST, I&#8217;m going to do some perfunctory research into what names are currently popular in Germany.  I don&#8217;t trust BabyCenter:  they publish an annual list of &#8220;the most popular names in the U.S.&#8221; that includes only the names their readers report using, as opposed to the list put out by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ssa.gov\/OACT\/babynames\/\">The Social Security Administration<\/a> which is based not only on the entire country (rather than on a non-random sample), but also on actual usage (rather than reported usage).  But their European twin BabyCentre claims to have collected &#8220;official statistics&#8221; to come up with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.babycentre.co.uk\/pregnancy\/naming\/top10namesaroundtheworld\/\">this list<\/a> of the top ten names around the world, including this list from Germany:<\/p>\n<p><span>Top 10 Boy Names in Germany, 2007<\/span>:<br \/>Leon<br \/>Maximilian<br \/>Alexander<br \/>Paul<br \/>Luca<br \/>Lucas\/Lukas<br \/>Felix<br \/>Elias<br \/>David<br \/>Jonas<\/p>\n<p><span>Top 10 Girl Names in Germany, 2007:<\/span><br \/>Marie<br \/>Sophie\/Sofie<br \/>Maria<br \/>Anna\/Anne<br \/>Leonie<br \/>Lena<br \/>Johanna<br \/>Charlotte<br \/>Hannah<br \/>Sophia\/Sofia<\/p>\n<p>Any one of those names would work in the U.S. just fine.<\/p>\n<p>All right, now back to The Baby Name Wizard.  First, boy names.  You&#8217;ve got Lukas and Carsten.  Here are a few more I like from the book and\/or from the BabyCentre list:<\/p>\n<p>Anders<br \/>Andreas<br \/>Elias<br \/>Erich\/Erik<br \/>Evert<br \/>Josef<br \/>Karl<br \/>Leon<br \/>Otto<br \/>Soren<br \/>Torsten<br \/>Werner<\/p>\n<p>Now, girl names&#8212;again, using the Baby Name Wizard and the BabyCentre list:<\/p>\n<p>Anneliese<br \/>Annika<br \/>Brigitta<br \/>Claudia<br \/>Elsa<br \/>Elsbeth<br \/>Greta<br \/>Ida<br \/>Lena<br \/>Leonie<br \/>Linnea<br \/>Lisbeth<br \/>Wilhelmina<\/p>\n<p>This is too many choices.  I&#8217;m getting muddled. What I&#8217;m fervently hoping is that we have some readers actually LIVING IN GERMANY who could give us some input.  Awhile back we were talking about French names, and I loved hearing from people living in France who could say things like, &#8220;Yeah, that&#8217;s a typical French name&#8212;but it&#8217;s, like, a DAD name, not a current baby name.&#8221;  These things are so obvious in one&#8217;s own culture, and so difficult in an unfamiliar one.  <a href=\"http:\/\/duwaxloolu.blogspot.com\/\">Jess Loolu<\/a> is in the middle of a big cross-country move or I&#8217;d force her to ask her German husband Torsten for input.  (And if you need a little breather between unpacking boxes and setting up utilities, Jess&#8230;)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D. writes: We&#8217;re due February 27th and don&#8217;t know what we&#8217;re having. My husband is from Germany and I am of German descent. Since we may be living in Germany at some point, we&#8217;re looking for a name that would work well in either Germany or the States. We&#8217;re a fan of modern German and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3iyiG-1Ql","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7089\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}