{"id":6830,"date":"2010-02-03T07:22:00","date_gmt":"2010-02-03T11:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2010\/02\/03\/baby-naming-issue-nicknames-for-a-fourth-iv\/"},"modified":"2014-07-30T16:15:40","modified_gmt":"2014-07-30T20:15:40","slug":"baby-naming-issue-nicknames-for-a-fourth-iv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2010\/02\/03\/baby-naming-issue-nicknames-for-a-fourth-iv\/","title":{"rendered":"Baby Naming Issue: Nicknames for a Fourth (IV)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gwen writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Here is my predicament\u2026 I\u2019ve been backed into a corner with carrying on my husband\u2019s name (neither he or I feel one way or the other about) but feel obligated to at least give it a try. The name is Thomas Kirkpatrick IV. This little guy would\/could be a 4th generation. My husband goes by T. Kirk or Kirk, his father goes by Tom and most recently TK. I don\u2019t want two Kirk\u2019s in the house\u2026 are there general 4th generation names like there are for 3rd generations?<\/p>\n<p>Any ideas that are new and different from the above. Thanks!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nOoo, we had a good talk about this awhile back: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2008\/06\/05\/nicknames-for-the-fourth-iv\/\">Nicknames for the Fourth (IV)<\/a>. The comments section came up with some really good ideas.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s too bad your father-in-law is taking Tom and also TK, because TK would be a great nickname for your little guy and an excellent resolution to the problem. Here&#8217;s my new rule: men who are part of a naming tradition may only use ONE of the limited available nicknames for the shared name.<\/p>\n<p>Well, since TK is indeed taken, my first suggestion is that you use Thomas. Little boys named Thomas used to go by Tom, but now they tend to go by Thomas.<\/p>\n<p>He could also go by Tom, like his grandpa: that would be a little confusing at occasional times, but not too bad.<\/p>\n<p>He could also go by Patrick, the second half of Kirkpatrick since the first half is already taken.<\/p>\n<p>He could also go by T.: my brother has a friend who goes by T., and it&#8217;s a natural and easy nickname that&#8217;s cute on a little boy and cool on an older boy. Again, it&#8217;s too bad your husband is using two of the available nicknames, but if YOU call your husband Kirk, then T. would work for your son. It&#8217;s mostly the household that needs separate names for each other.<\/p>\n<p>Any other suggestions for Gwen?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gwen writes: Here is my predicament\u2026 I\u2019ve been backed into a corner with carrying on my husband\u2019s name (neither he or I feel one way or the other about) but feel obligated to at least give it a try. The name is Thomas Kirkpatrick IV. This little guy would\/could be a 4th generation. My husband [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3iyiG-1Ma","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6830"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10263,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830\/revisions\/10263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}