Kristi writes:<\/p>\n
I stumbled on your blog today as I continued to work on a name for our baby boy. He’s expected in the next 3 to 4 weeks and we’ve always had a name locked down by now, so I’m getting antsy!<\/p>\n
Our first child is also a boy, and his name is John Fred Slemko, but we usually call him Jack. (I often call him John, but he’s 4 and he typically associates it with being in trouble!). John and Fred were my husband’s grandfathers. His uncle, and a very close family friend, were also named John. We elected to call him Jack in day-to-day life because my husband’s sister was also married to a John (they’ve since divorced) and I liked that Jack was still a strong sounding name.<\/p>\n
Our daughter is Georgia Adelaide Maria. I’m not big on giving three names, but she’s named for my grandmothers (Georgia and Adelaide) and also for my husband’s grandmother who passed away 5 days before she was born. I was very close to my Gramma Georgia and that name has been on my list since I was 16 years old; I realize it is becoming more popular now but it was chosen for long ago to honor her.<\/p>\n
Our third child is also a girl and we found it more difficult to name her. (I really believed we’d only have 2 children, so we used up all the names we loved that also had family significance, on the first 2 children!). After a long debate, we chose Elizabeth (it was my favorite name as a child, always given to my dolls; and it was the middle name of my best friend in high school who died just before graduation). For a middle name, we chose Alice (which was my husband’s grandmother’s name, as well as the name of my dad’s sister who passed away at birth). We wrestled with naming her Elizabeth because we don’t like any of the shortened forms like Liz, Lizzy, Beth, etc and wondered how we’d do when people tried to call her by a nickname. My dad has tested us from the beginning, calling her pretty much every possible nickname until my brother told him off one day and said it was disrespectful.<\/p>\n
Now we’re completing our family and have learned “it’s a boy!”. With the traditional names of our other three children, I don’t think we can throw in a Scout, Skylar, etc. (Not that we want to, but I’m just saying that I think the baby’s name should “fit” with his siblings). But more than that, we’d like a name with some family significance since the other three’s names are steeped in it. I was content to put significance on the middle name only (my maiden name is Palmer, so we agreed to use it as the middle name) but the names we like for first names are not resonating with me now the way they originally did. For instance – we’ve always liked William (but intended to call him William or Will, not Billy, Willy, etc). Now I wonder if it sounds strange to say “Jack and Will” together (sounds like Jack and Jill). For example, “oh, Jack and Will are at the rink with their Dad”. We also like Eric, but it rhymes with my husband’s name (Derek) and it doesn’t feel as “strong” or traditional as John\/Jack. Another one we both agree on is Henry, but it’s relatively new to our lists and I’m not sure I like the “John – Henry” combination. There are lots of other names I like, including Nicholas, Robert, Edward, Benjamin – but I like the full name better than the short forms, and with the battles we’ve faced with Elizabeth’s name, I’m not sure I’m up for doing that again!<\/p>\n
So, suddenly I’m wondering if naming him Palmer as a FIRST name is our best choice? I know it’s not common (I consider that a good thing) but it sounds strong to me, and definitely reflects our penchant for choosing names that honor our family heritage.<\/p>\n
Thanks in advance!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n