{"id":6052,"date":"2012-10-27T08:56:00","date_gmt":"2012-10-27T12:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2012\/10\/27\/baby-girl-roach-sister-to-vivian\/"},"modified":"2014-06-18T09:31:21","modified_gmt":"2014-06-18T13:31:21","slug":"baby-girl-roach-sister-to-vivian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/2012\/10\/27\/baby-girl-roach-sister-to-vivian\/","title":{"rendered":"Baby Girl Roach, Sister to Vivian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Today I have several posts I ran out of time to answer at usual length in the week after they arrived, but I&#8217;d jotted down a single suggestion in the spreadsheet. I&#8217;m going to post several in a row today with my extremely brief response, so that others can work on them further if they want to.)<\/p>\n<p>K. writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div>We are due with our second baby girl in early February 2013.\u00a0 We have one daughter, Vivian Marie, who will be 3yrs old this November.\u00a0 Selecting her name was easy, the name Vivian had always been in the back of my mind (even before Brangelina chose it). \u00a0I had always loved it, and when I suggested it to my husband, he liked it right away!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Well, things are not going so well this time.\u00a0 We aren\u2019t arguing over names, we just really don\u2019t have any contenders.\u00a0 We are thrilled to be having another girl, the only issue is her name!\u00a0 I don\u2019t want her to feel second best or that we didn\u2019t put any effort into finding the perfect name.\u00a0 I want to find a name we love just as much as Vivian, but nothing is really jumping out to either of us.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Another challenge is working around our last name\u2026Roach.\u00a0 Yep, just like the bug!\u00a0 All color or flower\/nature names are out.\u00a0 It is also a harsh one syllable name.\u00a0 I think of it like the period to the end of a sentence.\u00a0 Because of that, I feel the first &amp; middle names need to be a 3\/2 or 2\/3 syllable combo to soften the feel of the name.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>We believe this will be our last child.\u00a0 However, we have not made a definite decision, so the thought of a third child is out there.\u00a0 If we were having a boy, we had considered Jonathan and Arthur.\u00a0 I love both of those, but we did not get too far into the boy name discussion.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I want to stay away from \u201cV\u201d &amp; \u201cR\u201d names, and I don\u2019t want a name that is too popular.\u00a0 Unfortunately, I think I have become overly critical in my obsession with finding the perfect name.\u00a0 Here is a list of names I like along with my concerns\/reasons why they won\u2019t work.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Miriam \u2013 I really like this name, but it is too similar to Vivian.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Evelyn \u2013 I like this name, but again worry it is too similar in sound to Vivian.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Juliet \u2013 I like this name, but don\u2019t love it.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Charlotte \u2013 this name was brought up, but I immediately discounted it because it is too popular.\u00a0 Also I don\u2019t like the \u201cCH\u201d beginning with the \u201cch\u201d ending to Roach (even though I know the Charlotte \u201cCh\u201d is a softer sound, the visual just bugs me).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Judith \u2013 We both like this name, but don\u2019t love it.\u00a0 Also, it seems a bit too old-ladyish next to Vivian.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Josephine \u2013 I love this name, but we have a Joey, Joseph, and Sophie in our immediate family (Sophie negates using \u201cJosie\u201d as nickname), but I am considering this for a middle name.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Suzette \u2013 I really like this name (met one beautiful baby girl with this name and instantly loved it), but I\u2019m not 100% sure it\u2019s right.\u00a0 Also, we have a friend with a Scarlett, is that too similar?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Brynne \u2013 I actually love this name, but my husband does not.\u00a0 I also worry it is too short next to Vivian, and that it doesn\u2019t sound great with Roach (this is the only 1 syllable name I have liked).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Corinne \u2013 I love this name as well, but my husband does not.\u00a0 I also do not want the nickname Corrie (negative memory of girl I knew named Corrie).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i>**Just a side note that I love the sound of Brynne &amp; Corinne and can\u2019t get that idea out of my head, but neither name\u00a0 seems to really work for us.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Adele \u2013 Both of us really like this name, and want to love it, but we just don\u2019t feel 100% that it\u2019s the one.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Audrey \u2013 I really love this name, and my husband is warming to it.\u00a0 I mainly just worry that this one is too popular especially next to Vivian\u2026otherwise this is a current top contender.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Names I have considered, but rejected:<\/div>\n<div>Cecelia\/Celia<\/div>\n<div>Gwyneth<\/div>\n<div>Dorothy<\/div>\n<div>Morgan<\/div>\n<div>Margot<\/div>\n<div>Amelia<\/div>\n<div>Lydia<\/div>\n<div>Adrian<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<div>Names I am considering for middle names:<\/div>\n<div>Frances (family reference)<\/div>\n<div>Josephine<\/div>\n<div>Corinne<\/div>\n<div>Margaret<\/div>\n<div>Victoria<\/div>\n<div>Helena\/Helene (family reference)<\/div>\n<div>Nicole<\/div>\n<div>Madeline<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Please let us know what you think\u2026I know you get so many requests for help, but we would be so grateful to hear some of your advice!!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Thank you!<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div>and<\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div>\n<div>I emailed you a few weeks ago about our new baby girl, due Feb. 8th (email below). \u00a0Since emailing you, we have made some progress, but I would be so grateful to have your input!!!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Basically, we have it narrowed down to these names:<\/div>\n<div>Adele<\/div>\n<div>Audrey<\/div>\n<div>Lydia<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>**My husband has also put Celia and Julia on his list, but I cannot get on board with these. \u00a0The &#8220;Seel-ya&#8221; sound and &#8220;Jool-ya&#8221; sound just don&#8217;t sit right with me, especially next to Vivian (our first daughter&#8217;s name).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I still love everything about Adele, but just can&#8217;t make the commitment to it 100%, and my husband is still mulling it over. \u00a0We both agree that Adele\/Audrey have a similar feel, and my husband says Audrey is easier for him to say out loud. \u00a0I think that might be just because Adele is a name that is new to us&#8230;we don&#8217;t know anyone with that name, so he isn&#8217;t used to saying it. \u00a0With Audrey, I am still worried that it is too popular and\/or could be come too popular, plus the name Aubrey is so similar and it is becoming quite popular.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Then there is Lydia. \u00a0She is back on the list. \u00a0Lydia was a possible contender when we were naming our first daughter, but it really wasn&#8217;t discussed for long as we pretty quickly decided on Vivian. \u00a0This is a name that I really like, but I have waffled on it. \u00a0Right now, I am liking it more the more I think about it. \u00a0However, I am worried that this name also could be come too popular. \u00a0I love the idea of a 3-syllable name that ends in A. \u00a0For some reason that flow just sounds good with Vivian to me, and Lydia is the stand-out in that category right now.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>What do you think? \u00a0I would love the opportunity to hear your thoughts!! \u00a0At this point we are open to other suggestions for our short list, these are just the 3 names we both agree on at this point. \u00a0We would be so grateful to have your input!<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I suggest Eleanor, with nicknames Ellie or Nora. Eleanor Roach; Vivian and Eleanor.<\/p>\n<p>Of your three finalists, my favorite with Vivian is Lydia.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Name update!<\/strong> K. writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I just wanted to send your our name update!\u00a0 Thank you very much for posting our name quandary.\u00a0 The comments from your readers really truly helped us sort out our thoughts &amp; opinions.\u00a0 We came very close to selecting Audrey, and really gave Cynthia good consideration as well (Cynthia was a late addition to our list).\u00a0 Lydia kept popping up in our discussions, but neither of us felt it was the right name for this baby girl.\u00a0 We deliberated for what felt like forever, and I felt frustrated.\u00a0 It seemed like we would never fall in love with a name.\u00a0 Because of that, we decided to start fresh, so started over from scratch around Christmas.\u00a0 We both went back through name lists trying not to over think things, and just write down any name that we liked.<\/p>\n<p>Back during the early stages of our name search, I had added Juliet to my list and my husband had Julia on his.\u00a0 He couldn&#8217;t come around to Juliet, and I liked Juliet much better than Julia, so we left those names and just moved on.\u00a0 Well, in our second round, my husband added Juliet to his list&#8230;he couldn&#8217;t remember why he hadn&#8217;t liked it in the first place.\u00a0 Frustrating, yes(!!), but also exciting because we had a new name we both liked.\u00a0 We tried it out for the last few weeks of the pregnancy, and there really was no other contender, but for some reason I felt like I couldn&#8217;t commit until we saw her.<\/p>\n<p>Well, Juliet Frances was born on February 4th!\u00a0 Frances was chosen because it is a family name, and now both of our girls have middle names that honor a family member.\u00a0 We are very happy with our choice, and feel like she is already growing into the name!\u00a0 We love Vivian &amp; Juliet together as sister names, and even though I am not a big nickname person, I do love the idea of &#8220;Viv &amp; Jules&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you again for all of your help!!\u00a0 Photo is attached :).<a href=\"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Juliet.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7314\" src=\"http:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Juliet.jpg\" alt=\"Juliet\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Juliet.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.swistle.com\/babynames\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Juliet-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Today I have several posts I ran out of time to answer at usual length in the week after they arrived, but I&#8217;d jotted down a single suggestion in the spreadsheet. 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